Comments on: Controversy at Midwestern Mommy

By: Nap Queen

Nap Queen — Wed, 29 Mar 2006 23:16:54 +0000

You know, it always bugs me when people get upset about what other people write on their blogs. IF YOU DON’T LIKE IT, STOP READING IT. It’s a very simple solution, really.

Keep up the good writing. I, for one, love it Oh, and the weiner post? PURE GENIUS. What little boy DOESN’T like to play with himself?

By: Melissa

Melissa — Tue, 21 Mar 2006 05:47:31 +0000

I”m sorry you’re dealing with it. I can’t wait for my turn. Bleh.

But about the weiner. You’re doing a great job. It’s his weiner, he can do what he wants. Why is it much different than his arm? If we, as parents, make it shameful then the kids get weird about it. You’re a good mama. You know that.

I hope this blows over soon!

By: Dawn

Dawn — Mon, 20 Mar 2006 23:39:07 +0000

Oh Good GOD! I think you are doing fine Lisa.

And we German Catholics are frighteningly fertile.

PS I have never told my mom about my Blog, so I can talk about her in peace.

By: sweatpantsmom

sweatpantsmom — Mon, 20 Mar 2006 23:14:48 +0000

My family knows about my blog. Some read it, and some choose not to. I just thank God my 85 year old mother doesn’t own a computer and has no inkling of what a blog is.

In regards to sickos and the internet, I admit I have had my moments of paranoia but I agree with Jaelith and not living in fear. I do, however, make it a point never to post pictures of other peoples children (or any other adults, for that matter, unless I ask them first…)

And you know what? I thought the wiener post was freakin’ hilarious, and never thought badly of little Seth.

By: Isabel

Isabel — Mon, 20 Mar 2006 21:05:58 +0000

I’m glad I was able to read the “weiner” post before it was deleted it. Because I loved it.

And this is why I would NEVER share my blog with family (or people I know in real life). I can’t handle the drama.

And I’m sure you and your family are safe. You are very smart about what you post. Don’t worry about it.

By: Christina_the_wench

Christina_the_wench — Mon, 20 Mar 2006 14:24:51 +0000

Lisa,
Don’t let your family make you paranoid. Not every one is out to get your kid. My brother had the same problem with me making a web page with pictures of my niece and nephew on it, along with my girls. Noone but him and I knew about the page. He asked me to take the photos off. I did, but I thought it was totally stupid. I was just making something for us to share photos. No child molester can get to a kid through a photo on a web page. Good god!
You make my day brighter by letting me know I am not the only mother with dysfunctional (are you reading this, Lisa’s paranoid family?!?) family members and less than perfect-acting children. God gave us the ability to type and share so we don’t go crazy. I am convinced of that. It’s easy to see you have a fan base here by the comments left. Don’t stop doing what you’re doing.

By: something blue

something blue — Sun, 19 Mar 2006 23:47:38 +0000

It did run through my mind about all the sickos out there and that’s why I decided to only refer to my children by their nicknames. The idea of explaining not to talk to a stranger even if that person knows their name and personal details was just too hard to explain to a three year old.

For most people it’s hard to not be creatively stifled when people they know read what they write. Good for you for being honest with yourself.

By: consise10

consise10 — Sun, 19 Mar 2006 12:22:55 +0000

Hmm It`s a tricky one Lisa. My blog is only known by ‘him’ and M.J in my real life.It wouldn`t serve any purpose to let others in my reality, know my life and thoughts in such detail.Having stated that,I also choose not to post pictures of myself because in my professional circles, I am very well known.But they`re just my reasons,and do not apply here.

I do see how others like your brother might have opinions which negate what you intend to present particularly that which relates to your dear Seth. For the record here, my mind did never travel in the way your familys has about the stated post. I found it amusing as I do most of what you express, which is one key reason I tend to return. You have a way with words which is comically involving,hence the audience you have attracted.
I applaude your decision to keep on with what gives you joy.

By: quinn

quinn — Sat, 18 Mar 2006 23:05:39 +0000

Don’t ever apologize for your family or your thoughts. I, too, decided long ago that I would never feel the need to explain away something on my site or apologize for it. Then again, this ties directly into why I haven’t told my family about it! Keep doing what you do- you and your blog are wonderful.

By: Ranger Tom

Ranger Tom — Sat, 18 Mar 2006 21:35:38 +0000

I don’t think Seth is a feak myself… He’s a happy and heathy precocious little boy doing things little boys do when they discover things… I see what you write for what it is, humor and nothing more. Your blog is for you, not anyone else and if you offended anyone they’re the one’s who are narrow minded.

Signed- a non-child molester, non-stalker, ex-police officer and fellow blogger in West Virginia.