When a man loves a woman
Natalie, our almost-four-year-old neighbor spent a few hours at our house yesterday with Seth.
These two? Not to get all Forrest Gump on ya, but they go together like peas and carrots. I got such a kick out of overhearing their many and varied conversations.
The first one went like this:
Nat: I’m your girlfriend so you have to be nice to me.
S: Ok. But you have to be nice to me too.
Nat: Oh. (Pauses to think about this.) Ok.
They were very sweet to each other the entire time. I’m thinkin’ that Natalie is on to something when she tells a guy right off the bat that she expects him to treat her well.
At one point they were in the basement riding big wheels and had the following conversation:
Nat: You be daddy pig and I’ll be mamma pig.
S: Ok.
Nat: Daddy pig, help me. I’m scared.
S: I’ll protect you.
Nat: YOU SAVED MY LIFE. Thank you daddy pig!
He even let her ride his beloved Harley tricycle. He shared all of his toys without hesitation. And of course he had to show her his most precious possession. He has bunk beds WITH a ladder. Apparently kids of all ages think this is the coolest thing evah. They love to sit on the top bunk and throw stuffed animals “off the bridge.”
Little does he realize that this? Will be the ONLY time he’s ever allowed to have a girl in his room.
All day he’s been asking, “Can I have my girlfriend Mat-a-wee over?” He’s even made up a song about her coming over the play.
I think so far, my son is going to be a really good hubby some day. He’s pretty laid back and is totally ok with doing what the girl wants to do. And he has no problem sharing his toys. Little does he realize, THIS is the key to happy marriage.
Now about those eight children he supposedly wants…






movin'mom on 05 Apr 2006 at 4:48 am #
let me tell ya’ that when he is 14/15 years old and he still wants to “give” the girls what they want …you will be very very unhappy. Girls now a days want much more than they should be asking for. This is my 24.7 stress!!
Ranger Tom on 05 Apr 2006 at 10:15 am #
“He’s pretty laid back and is totally ok with doing what the girl wants to do. And he has no problem sharing his toys. Little does he realize, THIS is the key to happy marriage.”
Ooooh how I beg to differ…
Kristen on 05 Apr 2006 at 12:04 pm #
I just love hearing his little interactions. They are so freaking cute!
Christina_the_wench on 05 Apr 2006 at 1:04 pm #
Think of the eight tricycles you’re gonna have to buy! hehehe
Jaelithe on 05 Apr 2006 at 2:06 pm #
Eh, it sounds like this Nat chick knows her stuff. I expect she’ll be able to disabuse him of that eight sons notion right quick.
My little guy is going through a shy phase right now with the ladies . . . he used to be so outgoing, but yesterday we while we were waiting in the checkout line at Wild Oats, the most amazingly beautiful little girl toddler I have ever seen– with glossy black hair and ENORMOUS blue eyes– came up behind us. She started kicking and screaming almost immediately because once they were in line her mother wouldn’t let her push the cart anymore, and at that moment I was SURE she and Isaac would get along like peas in a pod. But when she started waving “Hewo!” and batting those beautiful eyes, he just tried to hide behind my leg the whole time.
Jenn on 05 Apr 2006 at 2:35 pm #
That’s adorable! I love when little kids “pretend” to have a boyfriend/girlfriend. It’s when they REALLY have one that the problems start. Lets just hope some girl doesn’t ruin him!
Mega Mom on 05 Apr 2006 at 3:45 pm #
I know we’ve already established that our young ‘uns would get along good, but this takes the cake. All of my sons have had big crushes. Gotta love ‘em.
Now, not later.
Romancing Simplicity on 05 Apr 2006 at 5:13 pm #
It sounds like so much fun for you eavesdropping on your son and his “girlfriend”…they sound adorable. He sounds like he’s got the role of being a perfect gentleman down pat so far. It sounds like all those lessons in laundry-sorting are coming along beautifully.
Romancing Simplicity on 05 Apr 2006 at 5:14 pm #
PS - I almost forgot to say thank you for your comment on my last post. It really made me smile and kind of made me happier with my boyfriend when I read your comment. So thank you =)
quinn on 05 Apr 2006 at 8:26 pm #
Love the Pee Wee love story. Too cute.
Stephanie A. on 05 Apr 2006 at 8:56 pm #
That really IS the key to a happy marriage. Mr. Seth is off to a good start!
Dawn on 05 Apr 2006 at 10:18 pm #
Just now teach him to say “Honey, I think you’ve lost weight…” and he is golden
MrsFortune on 06 Apr 2006 at 3:31 am #
Yup, natalie’s got it together. Just make sure she doesn’t find out about the whole 8 kids thing for at least another couple weeks.
Emily on 07 Apr 2006 at 12:33 am #
SO CUTE! I love to watch Becca interact with other kids, they always have the funniest conversations, it is easpecially good with your combination.