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The mysteries of the baby universe explained

Posted on May 9, 2006
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Seven years ago, after we’d just brought our sweet Abbeydog home, I discovered a book that explained why puppies did all sorts of puppy things — like eat their own poop and destroy expensive shoes. It was very informative, entertaining and insightful. I reasoned that if I understood WHY she did some of the things she did, perhaps I could be a few steps ahead. An ounce of prevention, you know. The theory worked. And life was good.

A few years later, on a summer day, I entered the house with a tiny pink, squirming, screamy force of nature we like to call Seth. Before the birth, I searched high and low for a book comparable to the one I found on dogs for pretty much the same reason. I never found it. Until now.

Jennifer Margulis, author of Why Babies Do That has written a book unlike a lot of the works inhabiting the Parenting Section of Borders/Barnes&Noble. She gives plenty of insights into the baby brain, broaching all sorts of behavior — from baby head bangers, and baby acne, to baby babble.

The only bone I have to pick with Ms Jennifer is, WHY DIDN’T YOU WRITE THIS BOOK SOONER?!? I could have used this book about a million times during my first year of parenting.

For example, most people know that repetitive movement typically soothes a crying infant. But did you know that researchers also believe that the movement itself helps to improve an infant’s sense of balance and his vestibular system? And that the bouncing could improve gross motor skills? Suddenly, you realize all of of those hours of simultaneous pacing and bouncing were satisfying a much higher baby need. Meeting that need could be why you’ve got an all-star athlete with great balance on your hands!

What I really enjoyed about the book was that Jennifer explained these mysteries in a friendly, gentle, confident tone. Her writing isn’t preachy or condescending. She knows her reader is most likely the new, nervous parent or prospective grandparent. She has three children. She’s been through this battle.

Oh and a bit of a warning — the photographs of babies are SO adoreable, you could very well catch “baby fever.”

So to sum up: Why Babies Do That by Jennifer Margulis is a quick, enlightening read — and would make a great baby shower gift. So go out and buy a copy already.

Why Babies Do That is currently out and can be found in the parenting sections of major bookstores.

Tomorrow I hope to post a short Q&A session from Jennifer the mom, author, and wife. So stay tuned…

Comments

16 Responses to “The mysteries of the baby universe explained”

  1. motherhooduncensored on May 9th, 2006 3:53 am

    Cool. You want to do a snappy review for Cool Mom Picks? Email me lady…

  2. Kristin on May 9th, 2006 4:40 am

    i have a new niece and i am so all over this book for my sister in law… thanks for the tip!!

  3. Emily on May 9th, 2006 4:59 am

    That sounds great Lisa. Even though my babies aren’t really babies anymore I think I am going to check it out, it sound very interesting!

    By the way, I love the new look. I haven’t been around for about a week so sorry if I am late, but either way I think it looks great. :)

  4. V on May 9th, 2006 11:39 am

    Wow…I must have a damn Gold Medalist living with me….after all that colic-y bouncing and pacing! Woo-hoo!
    Sounds like a great book!

  5. me on May 9th, 2006 12:03 pm

    I’ll have to get that book. I could sure use some explanation for why Vincent does some of things he does.

    Found you from Chris Cactus’ comments.

  6. Ranger Tom on May 9th, 2006 12:45 pm

    I’ll never need that book.

    :(

  7. Carrcakes on May 9th, 2006 12:57 pm

    Thanks for the book review. We’re trying for #2 soon and this will definitely come in handy.

  8. Andrea on May 9th, 2006 3:31 pm

    Now, if only someone would write that book, Toddler Speak Translated, I’d be golden. I’d write it, but I just don’t know what he’s saying… He added three extra syllables to “juice” this morning. Wha?

  9. V on May 9th, 2006 5:22 pm

    Actually….I would also like the sequel to be “Why men do what they do.” Is it in the works by any chance??

  10. Christina_the_wench on May 9th, 2006 6:24 pm

    Tell Jenny to get her ass busy and write a book on teenage daughters pronto! Time’s runnin’ out as is my nerves.

  11. Izzy on May 9th, 2006 6:25 pm

    As a “but WHY?” kind of person, I’m digging this whole premise. I’ll look for it when I’m taking one of my mom-only sabbaticals at the book store.

  12. Dawn on May 10th, 2006 12:59 am

    Ah yes, the vestibular sense. That’s what the rocking is all about. One of the most primitive of all senses.

    But even when you do know this - you’ll still want to fling yourself in a vat of tar as your spouse says “Why can’t you stop her from crying”

  13. melissa on May 10th, 2006 1:38 am

    OH my god, yes, WHY not sooner? I’ve heard so many great things about this book. I can’t wait to hear the interview!

  14. Kirsten on May 10th, 2006 3:10 am

    I think I’ll have to wait until the next baby to read this one. After all of the sleeping and eating problems, I am all baby booked out!

  15. Melanie on May 10th, 2006 1:40 pm

    Very cool! I’ll have to buy this book for all of my about-to-have-babies friends. And thank God because I’m sick of buying outfits.

  16. Jenn on May 10th, 2006 2:47 pm

    Hmmm sounds like a must have!

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