Meme, meme, me…
A very, very long time ago, Izzy tagged me for this meme. And now I’m finally getting around to extracting my head from my butt and actually doing the meme. Sorry it took so long, lady!
I AM: very tired right now. Its been a very active weekend filled with much sneezing and allergy type stuff. But also filled with watching my little man happily swing on his new swingset and dive for candy with his friends and cousins during a parade in my hometown.
I WANT: a guarantee that my son will grow up to have a wonderful, happy life filled with love and lasting friendships.
I WISH: I didn’t have the metabolism of an 90-year-old woman who weighs 30 pounds. Almost a month ago, I started exercising 5-6 days a week for 45-60 mins a session because my clothes were getting tight. Now, I’ve gained 4 POUNDS and my clothes don’t fit at all. What the FUCK?
I HATE: how some people feel completely entitled to ramrod their beliefs down my throat. I also hate how some women try to “out mom” the rest of us. They make you feel guilty for sending your kids to (gasp) public school, not spending several thousands of dollars on various enriching summer camps, and the fact that you didn’t mortgage your house to pay for toddler violin lessons. “You think its ok to send your child to a STATE college? Call social services!”
I MISS: sleeping in till whenever I want (think summer vacation when you’re 12).
I FEAR: someone’s carelessness and stupidity will someday result in serious harm to my child or other loved ones. But I also fear my son’s carelessness and stupidity may someday hurt someone else.
I HEAR: the hum of my computer right now. It is actually so lovely to not hear anything but that. In our old house, we lived off of a busy street and I had to put a fan on medium to drown out the traffic — even at 3 a.m.
I WONDER: if Matt Blunt (Mo governor) will ever get a clue? Also, if he and his wife have ever been completely naked. They don’t strike me as a couple that even has sex. They both seem to removed and sterile in their personalities. They don’t even seem like real people.
I REGRET: Not having enough confidence in my abilities or the courage to go away to college and pursue the type of career I REALLY wanted. I went to school around where I lived and stuck with a “safe” career choice.
I AM NOT: the woman who’s car, house and appearance are immaculate. I’m not high energy. I’m not the cool wife either.
I DANCE: with my son. And when I watch “The Tube”.
I SING: badly. Every time my son hears me he says, “Stop mommy. You’re HURTING my ears!”
I CRY: every time I see news coverage of animals in horrid conditions rescued from a breeder or hoarder. I cry when I think of all of the pain in the world. I cry when I read that stinky book, “Love you forever.”
I AM NOT ALWAYS: patient or kind (see previous entries).
I MAKE WITH MY HANDS: lots of gestures. I can’t seem to speak one sentence without moving them.
I WRITE: alot of lists. I have horrible short-term memory. I write my hubby e-mails when he’s out of town telling him how much I miss him.
I CONFUSE: everyone at some point.
I NEED: sleep. And my son to sleep at least 10 hours a night. I also need a painter to finish painting Seth’s room and the hubby to find a job with a company that doesn’t control our lives to the degree it does…
I SHOULD: Get off the computer and clean some part of the house.
I START: my day wishing for another 30 minutes of sleep.
I FINISH: candy bars and at times, my hubby’s sentences or the wine in his glass.
I am tagging Little Miss Sassy (Linlee) and Isabel if she has some time.






Spider63 on 05 Jun 2006 at 9:43 am #
What a list! Where to begin? how about the Serenity Prayer: God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference…
Jenny on 05 Jun 2006 at 12:13 pm #
I want to have a book burning of that “I love you forever” book. I can’t even look at the cover without starting to tear up.
Jaelithe on 05 Jun 2006 at 1:55 pm #
I think you’re right! I bet Matt Blunt and his wife never have been naked in the same room together.
Jennifer on 05 Jun 2006 at 1:59 pm #
I cry at animal cruelty also. Heck, I cry when I see Lost Dog posters. Luckily, I have never heard read this book you speak of (I’m guessing it’s a book for real mommies?), but I did cry at the end of Memoirs of Geisha, and it wasn’t even a sad ending!
Jenn on 05 Jun 2006 at 2:11 pm #
I miss sleeping in till whenever I want on weekends. Forget summer vacations when I was 12, how about like last year! LOL *sigh*
Andrea on 05 Jun 2006 at 3:36 pm #
I hear ya on the metabolism thing. I worked out for three months straight, every weekday, and only lost 7 pounds, while those around me lost 3 times that. I hear ya.
I’m with ya on the regret thing too. I did the same thing because I didn’t want to be a starving writer. Now, my career takes up so much of my time that I only get 3 good hours with my son, let alone any time to write something that will get me out of this rut I’m in.
jennster on 05 Jun 2006 at 5:25 pm #
LOL_ you crack me up..
Christina_the_wench on 05 Jun 2006 at 7:24 pm #
Girlfriend, get some zzzzz’s.
My kids are going to, (are you ready for this? Sit down) the community college I work at. ~insert gasp here~
Why? Because their tuition is FREE while I work here. Damn straight.
The Flip Flop Mamma! on 05 Jun 2006 at 8:57 pm #
I really enjoyed your list! And your honesty about yourself! I did this same Meme!
http://flipflopmamma.blogspot.com/2006/05/i-was-recently-tagged-i-love-it-so.html
I hope that works, you can check it out if you want!
carrie on 05 Jun 2006 at 9:18 pm #
I am with you on ALL of the sleep (or lack of it) references! Someday…we will get some rest! Then we’ll probably wonder why the kids haven’t been over in a month! HA HA.
Stephanie A. on 06 Jun 2006 at 12:21 am #
It sounds like you should get off the computer and sleep rather than clean! Sleep always comes before clean in the hierarchy of how to spend freetime. Always.
My hubby works at Unigroup in Fenton and that company is AWESOME! Not sure what your man does, but if he’s ever interested in working there let me know.
Mom101 on 06 Jun 2006 at 3:13 am #
That’s one of the best “wants” I have seen. So many moms “want” their kids to go to Harvard, blah blah blah…I think the most we can ask for them is exactly what you’ve stated here. Nice.
Virginia Belle on 06 Jun 2006 at 12:52 pm #
my favorite part is how you say you are not “the cool wife”. that cracked me up!
i’ve been meaning to check you out. i’ve read some of your posts via links on other peoples’ sites (jennster, mostly…i think) and i seriously had tears rolling down my face. you are incredibly funny. i’ll be back. but not in an “ah-nold” kind of way.
Undercover Angel on 06 Jun 2006 at 3:28 pm #
My metabolism went downhill the day I turned 30. I hate that I will never fit into my little tiny clothes again - although I still keep them…Just in case…
sunshine scribe on 06 Jun 2006 at 4:39 pm #
What a great list. Honest. And boy do I wish I could get some more sleep too….
V on 06 Jun 2006 at 7:09 pm #
Ahhh….Love You Forever. Always an easy out when I need a cathartic cry.
Kristin on 06 Jun 2006 at 8:23 pm #
I love the “I Wonder” about your govenor… that is priceless!
Molly's Brother on 07 Jun 2006 at 6:08 am #
Hey, I’m sick of people trying to force their BS down my throat too! LOL. Jeez…I mean, people! Let the gays marry! Let there be a nativity scene on a park for F’s sake! Why do we continue to look for reasons to be offended?
Whoa. I’ll get off my soapbox now. Thanks for listening.
Oh…and “I Love You Forever” still gets to me, too!
Izzy on 10 Jun 2006 at 3:19 pm #
You did it! Awesome
Isabel on 15 Jun 2006 at 1:16 pm #
I always love to read these…
(and I must NOT have time if I’m just getting to reading yours! Damn the newborn!)