Good Night (And how to "sleep tight")
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Most people who read this blog, at some point, have caught a post where I whine and moan about my sleep issues and the resulting migraines.
Typically, I slog through the day with a mind that feels as fuzzy as a mohair sweater. But when 9 p.m. comes around, I have enough energy to run a marathon.
I’ve researched this topic many a time. I’ve even been to a sleep doctor who got testy when I told him I’d rather not go on various prescription sleep medicines. So when an opportunity to review “Good Night” came up, I was jumping for joy — with visions of being alert and energetic dancing in my head. I was hoping Dr. Michael Breus, Ph.D. – the superhero of sleep — would be the answer to my prayers.
What I liked:
Dr. Breus has a very approachable and friendly writing style. He goes into great detail as to WHY sleep is important and HOW it can help you look younger, lose weight, give you energy and avoid future health problems. And when it comes down to the business of improving the quality of your sleep? He offers practical solutions – even mentioning products you may not have known existed to assist in your endeavor. But he also emphasizes in the beginning that if you want to succeed? You must commit and make the quest for a good night’s sleep a priority. But as you advance in your reading, you can put various tips you pick up into practice. A better night’s sleep? Is merely a flip of a page away.
I found the “Sleep Hygiene” information very insightful. The doctor gives some great advice on how to transform your bedroom into a heaven – a place you associate relaxation and sleep. While I know we need our bedroom to be dark and quiet to ensure the best sleep, I never thought about how temperatures, smells or general clutter could affect my rest. Once I followed his “bedroom makeover” tips, I did feel more at ease in our sleeping space. After I bought new pillows (based on his recommendations), and an air purifier, I noticed even my husband (a man who rarely has sleep issues) was sleeping better.
Dr. Breus also talks about the people who “steal” your sleep. My husband? Champion sleep stealer. For years, I’ve thought the only way I’d ever get a good night’s sleep on a consistent basis would be if I: a.) died or b.) divorced him. And like many couples, we’ve tried separate bedrooms but stopped after feeling the intimacy in our relationship wane. “Good Night” offers some wonderful ideas on how to deal with these kind of spouses. For example, I had no clue there are alarm clocks out there that vibrate to wake someone – no more awful screeching sound at 5 a.m. (Which is great when you can’t seem to fall asleep until 2 a.m.) And sound machines to drown out extreme snoring? Best. Invention. Ever.
There’s even tips on how to deal with those little slumber-swiping critters we call children!
I also found the “smart napping techniques” extremely useful as well as information on exercise times based on whether a person is a “morning person” or a “night owl.” He even discusses the best foods to eat, the best times for sex and has a plethora of relaxation methods to employ to gain a restorative night’s sleep.
Also, according to the good doctor, you don’t have to give up caffeine or alcohol. He gives some very smart advice on how to balance your “love” of both and STILL get a good night’s rest.
What I didn’t like:
I tried to keep a journal to figure out how many hours of sleep I need in order to feel “well rested.” I found this difficult. What do you do when you typically wake up each morning with an achy noggin due to sinus problems or migraines? How do you calculate your sleep when you’ve got a child who’s now in bed with you because he’s had a bad dream and repeatedly kicks you in the face throughout a night? What about those times when you’ve been up so many times you’ve lost count?
This book is PERFECT for:
There are many who will benefit from this book — mainly anyone who’s tired on a regular basis. Even people who sleep well at home but not on the road can use the travel sleep tips listed. I’ve mentioned this book to several women I know who have sleep issues. I’ve got three people who are dying to get their hot little hands on my copy of this book.
But if you can’t get the book just yet, the doctor has two great websites: http://www.yourbeautysleep.com/ and http://www.theinsomniablog.com/.
In short? The book offers a plethora of solid advice. I started reading the book at the beginning of what ended up being a long period of stress and upheaval within my family. (Illnesses, a time change, many migraines, a family vacation, husband’s travel, back problems, and our son’s trip to the emergency room.) So it was difficult to be consistent to the sleep boot camp schedule. But I still got a lot out of the program. And for the record? I plan to return to the boot camp schedule in a few days.






carrie on 30 Mar 2007 at 7:28 am #
Thank you very much Lisa!
Carrie
Reba on 30 Mar 2007 at 12:45 pm #
My fiance snores really loud, but I can sleep right through it and so can my son. I guess when you grow up in a house where someone snores so loud the windows shake you become immune to it.
Pink Herring on 30 Mar 2007 at 3:17 pm #
Ooh, I’ll have to pick that book up. I used to work in a sleep lab, so I feel like I know more than most about the science of sleep…. but it does me no good to be able to read an EEG when I am lying in bed at 3am, crying because I can’t fall asleep yet again. I know that personally, I feel much better when I straighten up the bedroom before going to sleep… so if he’s going to give out more tips like that, I NEED to hear them!
I don’t suppose he talks about how to keep your cat from stealing your pillow every night? I’ve tried locking him out of the bedroom, he just cries and scratches the door all night. My boyfriend also snores quite a bit, but the funny thing is, if I shake him gently and say “SHUT UP, you’re snoring”, he stops.
I will forever envy people like him, who fall asleep in 30 seconds and stay asleep all night.
flybunny on 30 Mar 2007 at 4:34 pm #
I am definately going to have to pick this one up. I don’t sleep very well not pregnant either and need some help.
One question - do these tips translate into valuable information for kids? I have a non-sleeper that is partially due to her ADHD meds but even when she doesn’t take it it is hard for her to go to sleep….
Undercover Angel on 30 Mar 2007 at 5:04 pm #
I’m going to have to check that book out. I have so much trouble sleeping that I feel absolutely horrible most of the time…
Chris on 31 Mar 2007 at 3:56 am #
My bedroom is a DISASTER area. I have realized that clutter has bothered my sleep before. Next B&N visit I’m going to look for that book! Thanks!
Eau'Flynn on 01 Apr 2007 at 7:01 am #
an air purifier? i think we might have to get one of those..did it make a difference for you?
and more importantly..what did he say about pillows?? i have had the same one for far too long (shh!) and don’t want to part with it, but i think i’m going to have to. what kind does he suggest? and did it help?
thanks so much! i’ll have to see if it’s available here