First Grade Friendships
The door bell rings. I look toward the front door and see a pair of brown eyes staring back at me. It’s the little neighbor girl who’s Seth’s age. I smile and motion for her to come in. She stops by sometimes 4-5 times a day. She’s familiar with my gesture and so she opens the door and walks into the kitchen.
“Um. Can Seth play?,” she stoically asks.
“Sure Sweets. Come on in. Hey Bunny! Natalie’s here,” I yell.
She’s used to seeing us on a Saturday morning lounging in pajamas. She used to eating breakfast, lunches, dinners with us. She’s seen our house immaculate and downright scarey. She’s seen us in good moods and in bad, sick and well. She can quickly assimilate the tone of the household. She’s been coming around almost every day for almost three years now.
She and Seth are like peanut butter and jelly. One is rarely without the other. And if Seth has friends over, she’s often in on the activity too. Most of the time she’s happy to play Star Wars (if she can pretend she’s Hannah Montana with a light saber.) Like Seth, she has lots of energy. They amuse each other. Well, until one gets tired and cranky and stomps off in a huff. But 20 minutes later, she’ll be right back on our front porch peering into our doors and asking if Seth can play.
I used to joke that she spends so much time at our house that we should be able to list her as a deduction on our taxes. But I’m very grateful to her and his other friends like Jack, Chloe (he swears he will marry Chloe someday), Nick P, RJ, his best bud Josh and the rest of the crew. Many of these kids have spent countless hours playing with Seth in his clubhouse, in his room or riding bikes in the front. Many of them, like Natalie, are about as familiar with our house as they are with their own.
Throughout the years, we’ve gotten to know a lot of his friends pretty well. We consider them part of our family. We talk with them, learn from them, laugh with them, feed them and fall in love with them. And while they are in our lives, our family is that much happier, that much noisier, and that much richer.
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By LisaS, April 27, 2009 @ 8:56 pm
my best friend at that age was the boy next door. those were sweet, sweet times.
By flutter, April 28, 2009 @ 5:47 am
oh this made my heart happy
By Jakki, April 30, 2009 @ 5:38 pm
sweet sweet memories…i love them and cherish them.
By Sarah @ BecomingSarah.com, May 4, 2009 @ 8:55 pm
What a beautiful set of memories for you and for Seth both. I never thought before about the memories that my friends and I were building for my parents when we were playing together at his age…
By Stephanie, May 7, 2009 @ 4:56 am
What a sweet post. After living in a relatively childless neighborhood for several years, and now moving next door to little cousins and neices, we have a lot of the “Can Sydney come play?” It’s a new feeling. It’s a good kind of feeling, having other kids around, and to hear them playing together warms my heart.
By Lisa, May 7, 2009 @ 2:44 pm
it’s a great thing to have the extended family through the kids friends
By IzzyMom, May 8, 2009 @ 5:07 am
Ohhh…what I wouldn’t give to have some kids in our neighborhood. You and your kids are so lucky
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